Three months ago, I was sent on a business trip where I was appointed to live with one of the business associates for about 6 weeks. It didn’t take me long to realize that he was gay. There was a beautiful woman who lived in the bottom portion of the house. I later found out that it was his wife. They got separated after he admitted that he was interested in men.

Around the 3rd week I started getting close with his ex-wife. After observing how close we were getting he told me that he didn’t have a problem with our friendship, as long as I didn’t get intimate with her. Although I agreed to his request I didn’t take him seriously. “Nigga you’re gay,” I thought.

The following week he flew out of the country to attend a business conference. Yes, I had sex with his ex-wife; many times. She was an extremely hot woman and I couldn’t resist. Any straight man would have done the same. So, don’t judge me.

Anyways, I’m back in Antigua with my wife and children. A few days ago, I surprisingly received an email from my business associate saying, “I hope you did not sleep with my ex-wife. She HIV positive.”I immediately went and took a test. I got back my results yesterday and unfortunately, I have contracted the HIV virus. I am very ashamed and I don’t know how to approach my wife about my infection. What should I do?