MUB, I have a serious problem and I need some advice before I approach my boyfriend.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half and I’m in love with him and all that but last week Friday, he told me that his ex moved back in with him. I thought about it for the whole weekend.
He told me she was near to homeless so he allowed her to come and live with him. Now I’m upset because why would she want to stay there? I trust him but I don’t trust that bitch. MUB, let’s be honest, am I wrong for being upset? I don’t know how to react, I don’t know how to feel because let’s face it, she could possibly end up with my man.
Help me out,
Hopelessly in love.
I think any sensible woman would be upset or uncomfortable if her boyfriend moved in his ex so your reaction is normal. From what you said, I take it that he made the decision to move in his ex without first seeking your permission. The fact that you’ve been in a relationship with him for a year and a half, I think he should have respected you enough to seek your permission first.
What you should do is let him know how you feel about the situation and be honest about it. You said that you trust him but you need to understand that it’s not just a friend that’s living with him, it’s his ex. Someone he had a close connection with and the fact that he allowed her to move back in with him, indicates that he still has a soft spot for her.
You need to deal with this situation asap!