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Dear MUB,

Reading the story got me to a point where I was doing some serious thinking and I want to use this opportunity to apologise to my girlfriend. I  honestly never realised how much I was hurting her.

MUB, the story is a lot deeper than what she wrote. I’ve hurt her a lot over the years we’ve been together. She eventually told me everything but I wished she had spoken to me before making it public. I blame myself because I’ve had two children outside of our relationship while we were together and a third child is on the way. When I told her about the third that was when she called it quits.

I asked her “why get so mad when you have three whole men?” Knowing that her actions were a results of my doings,I never should have said that to her. We called it quits not because of what she was doing because I’ve forgiven her but because of this third baby.

MUB, I want to say to the general public; when you have someone good in your life, hold on to them because you never know what you’re going to get. She was there for me through thick and thin. I just didn’t understand her at the time or how her situation worked.

I’ve done some research to try to help her but it’s a bit too late for that now and for that I apologise. I also want to apologise for not being there or treating her the way that I have. She deserve so much more. I want her to know that she doesn’t need the other guys because they don’t deserve her. I wish her all the best and once again, I do apologise.